How Do You Make A Girl Squirt?

by admin on February 25, 2009

If you’re someone who can stimulate a woman’s G spot, then you’re already well ahead of the rest because very few have found this coveted spot. But why not take this a step further by actually stimulating it to the point where your partner ‘squirts’ (experiences an ejaculation)? Understandably, there are several things that need to be covered to make her squirt from g-spot stimulation, and not all of them concern physical stimulation.

Step1

It’s ALWAYS important to engage in foreplay. A woman’s sexual arousal takes place first and foremost in her brain. As such, never underestimate the power of foreplay. Instead of just trying to get her in the mood minutes before making love though, try to really build sexual tension by starting foreplay hours or even days in advance. This ‘pre-conditions’ her mind and body so that she’s more ready to squirt from G spot stimulation.

Step2

Now, it’s time to locate the G spot. Once she’s wet and ready, ask her to lie on her back, her back supported by soft pillows. You may want to engage in oral sex first to ensure that she’ll welcome your fingers. Now, insert your index finger or middle finger or both slowly insider her wet womanhood, palm up. Once inside, position your finger(s) at 11 o’clock. Now, hook your finger in a “come hither” position. Shift your fingers slightly till you reach a spot that’s slightly rougher (some say it feels like the top of your mouth).

Step3

Once you find her G-spot, stimulate it. There are several ways to stimulate the G-spot and each woman has her own ‘favorite’. You can try the ‘doorbell method’, which is basically trying to press and release a buzzer; you can flick it like a switch; you can draw small circles around; you can also stroke the G-spot. Try them all and see which one brings the best response.

Step4

Prepare her mentally and emotionally for squirting. Some may say that this should be Step 1 but you see many women are actually uncomfortable discussing squirting. They feel embarrassed about it as they equate it with “peeing on their partner”. That’s why we put this step here. At this point – thanks to your G-spot stimulation – she’s probably already rearing for some form of release.

It’s your job now to encourage her to just “let go” and that you’re perfectly OK with anything that will happen. Tell her you’re ready for her to squirt on you. In fact, you want her to do it. The point is to remove ANY inhibitions she may have about ejaculating or squirting on you. Removing this mental roadblock is often all that takes to ensure she moves forward and squirts from G-spot stimulation.

If you feel that your partner is the type who would want to pre-discuss squirting from G-spot stimulation first, then by all means, make this Step 1.

Step5

Not all women squirt equal. Some women may squirt a small amount, while others will squirt more. Either way, be prepared for anything. The worse thing you can do is to ‘jump out of the way’… hurting her physically and emotionally.

Where Is The G-Spot Located?

by admin on February 25, 2009

Do you know where your partner’s G spot location is? No? Well, that’s not surprising as most women themselves don’t know where it is in their own bodies. So why don’t you make tonight a special one? Make it a night for trying to find her G spot location so you can bring her to a different kind of climax.

Step1
Trying to find her G spot location is as much about trust as it is about female anatomy. Don’t forget that to find her G spot, she will be literally opening herself up to you so it’s important that this takes place at a time in your relationship when you both really trust each other.

Each relationship is different so you would have to gauge if the task of finding her G spot location should be discussed before-hand or not. For some couples, it should be discussed so that she’s not taken by surprise. For others, the way you broach the topic is the key. For instance, you can simply tease her during the day about ensuring that tonight is a night she won’t forget… if she wants it to be that way. Whatever approach you take, keep in mind to respect her wishes.

If you thought you can do this without any pre-discussions, and you find out she’s not into it, then leave it be. She must be comfortable with the idea or finding her G spot location will be even harder.

Cleanliness is very important. Before the big night, make sure you’ve cleaned your hands well and cut your nails. You don’t want to scratch her do you

Step2
It’s important that she’s very wet before you try and find her G spot location. As such, you need to engage in some heavy foreplay to ensure that she’s wet and wanting. When this is achieved, ask her to lie down on her back and prop her buttocks with some pillows so that part of her is a bit elevated for easier access.
Step3

Draw her knees up and put her at ease by engaging in oral sex first. When she’s good and ready, you can then try to insert your finder into her. Make sure your palm is facing up so that when you curve your finger, it’s not facing her vaginal wall.

Step4

Find an area that feels like the roof of your mouth. It should be a bit spongy, rough and ridged. Although the exact G spot location is not the same for all women, it should be about 1.5 to 3 inches within her vaginal wall.

Step5

Once you find the G spot, you can pretty much treat it like her clitoris and stimulate it as such. For added sexual delirium, you can use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris or even perform oral sex on her while your finder continues its sexual assault on her G spot.

How Do You Find & Finger The G-Spot?

by admin on February 25, 2009

A woman’s Gräfenberg spot or G-spot is said to be her most sensually explosive area. A lot of people (men and women) can’t even find it lending more allure and mystery to the spot. Well, today, you’ll learn how to find and finger a girl’s G-spot.

Step1
G-spot stimulation is all about trust. If she doesn’t trust you completely yet, or this is your first time to try and stimulate her G spot, or if she has personal issues with G spot stimulation, NOW is the time to clear the air and check how she feels about it. Bottom-line, if she’s not comfortable, finding and fingering her Gspot won’t bring any success.
Step2
Ensure that you’re properly groomed. Make an effort to cut your nails and make sure you have clean hands.
Step3
Engage in prolonged foreplay. The more sexual tension / sexual anticipation in her, the more responsive she will be with G spot stimulation. Performing oral sex on her is a good way to kick start G spot stimulation
Step4: Once she’s wet and ready, slowly but firmly insert your index finger inside her, palm up. (You can also insert BOTH your index and middle fingers, depending on her tightness). Once inside, move your finger(s) a bit to the left (11 o’clock position). Bend your finger(s) as if you’re making a “come hither” expression. Now, slowly try and locate an area that’s a bit swelling. Like the clitoris, it swells when aroused.) Feel for a spongy or slightly ridged area (like the top of your mouth).
Step5
Once you’ve found the elusive G-spot, you can stimulate it in many ways. (1) Tap it as you would rapidly tap the end of a pencil on your teeth (or desk). (2) Flick it repeatedly like a light switch. (3) Treat it like a doorbell that’s falling on deaf ears; i.e., press the bell with a bit of pressure repeatedly. (4) “Lick it” by using your fingers and gently stroking it. (5) Treat like her clit and draw small circles around it. Try all these and see which one turns her on best.
Step6
Prepare for ejaculation… hers. As you stimulate the G-spot, be aware that this can really make her squirt. She may try to stop this feeling as it feels the same way as needing to pee and she doesn’t want to be embarrassed. So if you start to feel that her womanhood is trying to clamp down on your finger(s), start goading her to let go. Reassure her that you want her to come and – hopefully – she will.